Tuesday, February 15, 2011

Feeling like a little kid


OK, so I'm an old man with a VERY young heart, mind and sex drive!

This weekend, I made mad passionate love to my girlfriend for Valentines Day.

Then I spent the rest of my weekend working on Remote controlled planes and boats and I LOVED IT!
When it rains, it washes out my work so I get bored to death and putting together things that go fast and are fun does it for me! I built two planes and got my boat all ready to go so as soon as the rain stops, I'll be ready to play~.

Thank god I have a girlfriend that doesn't get too upset when I don't pay EVERY minute of my time that I'm not working with her. She says that one of the things she loves about me is that I'm not obsessed with "ONE" thing, that she loves that I have lots of different things that I like to do. Good thing because with the two ranches, my kids, my over 40 soccer team, my Hot toys, my motorcycle and my group of bikers that I ride with at a drop of a dime, she has to be pretty patient!

I actually spent a lot of time with her this last week. Working on her truck and dealing with a CRAZY daughter that she has. If she was my kid, I'd help her down the stairs.... so to speak....

Life is good right now, just scored 3 BIG jobs so I'll be working into spring. That's a REALLY good thing because I have some traveling plans and I don't want to stress about money....ahve

I have a question for you...

Do you call your partner every morning if you don't live with them? This morning my girlfriend got mad at me again because I didn't call her first thing this morning. I was busy and I left my house without my phone and just figured I'd see her since she was going to be coming down this morning anyway. When I got home, there were 4 calls on my phone and when I picked it up, it rang again and it was her. She started giving me the riot act about not calling her, even though she was supposed to come down this morning. When she does that, it just makes me want to NOT CALL....

My question is, during a work day, do you expect your partner to call you during the morning? Knowing that my mornings are busy and I'm working or setting up work or doing bids and I'm not thinking about calling. I told her I would have called her once I was done with what I was doing... she didn't like that.... Is she being to needy? Insecure? This has been a problem for us for a while know. I work in the morning, she sleeps in and doesn't go to work until after 12....
Just looking for a little feedback on this.
Thanks and hope you all have a wonderful week and for those of you in California, Stay dry! And for those of you back East, STAY WARM!!!

Hugs,
KC

Tuesday, February 8, 2011

Winter things


Well, I've been really busy with life so I haven't had much time to post over here.
Spent the weekend at the ranch and that's exactly what I needed. You've heard of "Man Caves" well I have a "Man Ranch" and it's where I love to go to get away from everything. My cell phone doesn't work there which makes it even better.

I went with a couple of friends and we spent the weekend chainsawing wood, clearing roads and shooting guns. What more could a man ask for!

I feel much more relaxed after that trip. The last couple of weeks has been CRAZY. I've been working my ass off and when I get home, all I can think about is sleeping.

I  did find time to work on my winter toy... my little speed demon..... a small boat that goes VERY fast.!
Went for a few motorcycle rides which always relaxes me. Yes, it's been beautiful in Cali.

The down side is that the girlfriend and I have been having problems but hopefully that too will work out.

Life hs been hectic,  but things have been looking up!

So, I'm playing with my toys and enjoying the weather....
Hope you all are having a great week!

Hugs and kisses to you all @@@

KC









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Monday, January 24, 2011

Needed someplace to park this

I heard this song and loved it so I want to learn to play it on my guitar and needed someplace to park the lyrics so that my GF won't find them until I get all the guitar parts down.

Having a good "Chat" over on Kat's Blog... you know me, always stirring up the pot!
Anyway, come give you're two cents about the topic, I haven't written much over there lately and thought this was a good topic to.

I went for a GREAT Motorcycle ride this weekend. We were bundled up pretty well since it was in the high 40's when we started out but it warmed up a bit and we started shedding layers. Sunny and warm by afternoon!

Hope you all are having a wonderful week.
KC




My puppy Shadow has finally become a "woman" so I had to put a pair of my kids shorts on her...
She didn't like that!! LOL
She's a redneck dog and doesn't like sagging!!


Tuesday, January 11, 2011

Random



It's been  a while since I Blogged. The end of 2010 was a crazy time and I needed some time to figure some things out. December is always a hard time of the year for me. Business slows because nobody wants to remodel their homes knowing that they are going to be having company over the holiday's. People start thinking about all the presents they need to buy and don't want to spend money on making their home pretty... They also start to worry about taxes and so... unless it HAS to be done, jobs are put off until after the Visa bill comes in January...

I'm still waiting to find out what's going to happen with my DUI ( driving under the influence of prescription meds) The DA hasn't pressed charges so it's still up in the air... That's a something that has really been weighing on my mind. I've done REALLY well keeping clean and out of the court system. It's been 27 years since I was last in court and I've managed to fly under the radar ever since... I ride with a Biker group, I live a good life and I've stayed out of trouble... then in a blink of an eye, this! So, I'm waiting to see what's going to happen... I'll keep you posted!

The GF is stressing about her work and so it comes home with her... speaking about home, she's been staying over more and going home less and I think that might  be causing some more stress... I'm used to having my "Man Cave" time and when she's around, I don't get that Staring at the TV time... Did you ladies know that men can sit and stare at nothing without saying a word and be totally content? Well, we can and I miss that... I think since she's been here more often, she is starting to get that feeling that I need to tell her everything I'm doing and everywhere I go... now, I don't mind sharing those things with her but I don't want to feel "guilty" when I just want to go and hang out with my friends and shoot the shit... the other day, she called me to ask me a question while I was in a meeting and I couldn't answer the phone... she kept calling,, and calling... and calling... finally, my meeting ended and I answered and the first thing out of her mouth was "WHY DIDN'T YOU ANSWER YOUR PHONE, I KNOW YOU HAVE IT WITH YOU" right away, I went on the offensive.... "Who do you think you are yelling at me" Do you know who you're FUCKING with!! When things are going well, for some reason, she always finds a way to make drama... That's why I liked only having her around 2 days a week and occasionally on the weekends. We didn't fight, we made love we talked nicely to each other. I'm not a yeller,  I know that NOTHING ever gets solved by yelling but I also have a tendency to shut down... something I work on daily.
So, It's a new year. I want to make this year better than last.

Help just showed up to take care of my Alzimers Mother so I have to go and train her on what to do... so, I'll end with:

God, grant me the serenity to except the things I can not change,
The courage to change the things I can,
and the wisdom to know the difference.

BTW, I grew that Rose.... my Rose garden gives me piece of mind......
Have a great week!
KC