Thankful for a lot

This Thanksgiving was very special for me. I was able to get 3 out of 4 of my children together for Thanksgiving dinner. To some, that may not sound like a big deal but for me, it is. My kids all live in different towns. No, they don't each of different mothers, but they are growing up and they have all moved for one reason or another and are moving on with their lives.


My oldest son lives close to me, we see each other at least once a week and we have a very close relationship. He's 28. I raised him on my own for several years until I met his stepmother. He's married, working full time and going to school to get his degree in Computer Science. He's working on getting his Microsoft Certification and has his own computer repair business. Needless to say, he's pretty busy but still finds time to hang out with dad.

My daughter is 24, now she's my problem child. No, she's not a basket case, so to speak, but she has her own ideas of how to live life and that doesn't include being a part of the family. I raised her as well on my own for several years. She has decided to stick with the ex-wife in hopes of being included in the will one day... she hasn't quite figured out that she isn't blood ( ex is not her birth mother) (That's a story I'll get into another time... it's a long one! lol) Anyway, she lives with her boyfriend's family about a 100 miles from the home base. I talk to her when I call her. She calls me when she needs money or has a problem. She hasn't figured out that it's better to keep in contact just in case something comes up. I've rescued her a few times and now instead of giving her money, I give her gift cards to Safeway so that she has to buy food... supposedly, she is clean and sober but whenever I see her, she's skinny, shaking and can't sit still... having been through all of that myself 25 years ago, I can tell when things are "normal" but I can't fix her so I give her love, I tell her that she has a home here if she needs to get away from where she is and then I let her do her thing... and hope that she comes out the other side alive....

Then I have the King of the family. He's my 18 yr old. I call him my politician because that kid can work a room like no other kid I've ever met. He is polite, inviting, a conversationalist. He communicates with adults as well as peers. He played competitive soccer for many years. He's active in social sports, doesn't party, goes to Gonzaga University and is doing very well in his first year there. He also knows how to work the "System of Mom" he knows how to get what he wants from his mother! I'm not into spoiling my kids but I do what I can to help make life better for them. Their mother comes from old money/trust baby so she has never had to work a day in her life and has never had to struggle to make ends meet. The King, knows how to do the right things and say the right things to get what he wants. From me, he gets love, a dad to talk to and a father that will tell him what's right and wrong. I think he's going to be a well rounded individual as he grows up.

My youngest son is 12. He reminds me, of me.... he's a rebel, he plays football, he chases chicks. He loves school for it's social climate, not the learning climate. He's 5'9" tall, he's 160 pounds of muscle so he's lean and mean... (I was tall but not as heavy as he is) He loves the attention he gets from playing football. He hasn't quite figured out that when you play football, you represent your team on and off the field. He's trying to learn humility but he's still young and learning... He wants to be like his 18 year old brother but he doesn't have the charm that his brother has so he uses his bronze instead.. He too is very respectful and practices manners but he's like a bull in a china shop sometimes and needs to be reminded that with size come responsibilities. All and all, he may not be University Material, but if he keeps playing football the way he is, he could go far...

We had a great time talking, laughing, playing Guitar Band, (I played the drums) visiting and sharing stories with the other guests that came. I cooked 2 turkeys and all the fixings. Others brought their favorite foods and we stuffed ourselves.

I'm thankful for my family and all of my close friends that came and spent the day with us. I'm also thankful for those that couldn't make it.

I hope everyone had a nice time with family and friends!

Resting this weekend

Our little GFF called today and wanted to get together with us for a little fun or the Adult kind... but after last weekend, we're both wanting to relax this weekend and be "normal"...
My GF did some "shaving" last Saturday night and she said that she's a little tender still from the rash that followed on the following day... she wanted to be EXTRA smooth, so she went against the grain while shaving and she's got the little red bumps that itch like crazy. I know about the "little red  bumps" too.. you see, I'm saved "Down there" as well...
I never thought I would EVER do anything like that.. I'm not a "hairy" guy but one night, I thought I would surprise her and Shave... Being a "Manly man" I didn't ask anyone about how to go about it... I just go the razor and started at it... I shaved my balls, the inside of my legs at my crotch, I saved my shaft... then I thought, what the hell, I'll shave a little higher too so I shaved up to my belly button...
Next I looked at my chest and I thought, " I'm going to trim that up too" so I started to trim it with the razor... and I put a couple of streaks down my chest... so I thought, "Well, now you've done it" so I shaved my chest hair....
By the time I was done, I had the smoothest Chest and privates EVER!! I shaved every which way... up, down, sideways... I was SMOOTH...
She loved it!! She couldn't keep her hands off me... it was HOT.... UNTIL.....
The next day.... that's when I started itching... not just itching.. I mean REALLY itching.... It was driving me crazy!!! and that's when I saw the bumps.... EVERYWHERE!!! I almost freaked out.... I said "I'LL NEVER SHAVE AGAIN!
It took about a week for all the bumps to go away.. my girlfriend told me what I did wrong... and since then, I've kept myself fairly well shaved.. I've learned that in my business, shaving at my belt line, is NOT recommended... If you spend a lot of time bending over or have the chance of dirt getting into your clothing... DON'T shave at the belt line... it takes FOREVER for those little bumps to stop itching and go away..! LOL
So, when my GF said she'd like to just relax this weekend, I don't have any problem with that... I'll rub lotion where she needs it and we'll have a nice, Vanilla weekend... and I'm PERFECTLY content with it...
Cause I know that once those bumps go away.... she'll be ready to explore our NEXT adventure!
I love her...!

OK, Now things are really heating up...

What can I say... what a weekend! My GF is the GREATEST! She is full of surprises...

Friday night we spent the evening at home. I cooked us some dinner and we started watching a movie... "Get him to the Greek" Sooo funny! After the movie, we spent the next 5 hours making love in every room of the house... We went from room to room... and did "It" in each room in a different position... She is a trooper! That girl LOVES to make love!
So, Saturday afternoon, we took the bike out for a little ride, went to the Crape-vine for lunch. Sat outside along 4th Street and watched the people walk by. It was such a great day. 75 Degrees during the day and in the low 70's that night. We went over to our little friends (GFF) and met her husband. Visited for a while and then came home. Later that evening, the GFF called and said that she and her husband wanted to stop by. She told us that she had been talking to him about the possibility of us two couples getting together for some fun. Now, he hasn't ever don't anything like that so it was going to be a "feeling" out period...
They showed up about 9:00 pm and the GF, GFF and her H (Husband) had a couple of Cocktails, I don't drink. We planned on taking a Hot Tub and then sitting around watching a movie... we decided to watch the movie first so we all sat on the couch and hit PLAY... literally! No sooner than the movie started, I started kissing my GF and she started rubbing on me... I looked over and the GFF's, H, had his hand down his wife's shirt.... the next thing I knew, the GFF was all over my GF.... she had her top off in a flash and was sucking on her breasts... the H, wasn't sure what to do! I couldn't help but chuckle. The H didn't know that this had happened earlier in the week and so it kind of caught him off guard..
At the point, I didn't care what the H did... I was getting into the action.... without getting into much detail.... it was another night to remember! We did end up taking that hot tub, but not until long after the movie was over... we sat in the tub and talked about what had just happened.... the H was a little taken aback by his wife's aggressiveness, I assured him that it wasn't LOVE, it was FUN, and than what they had was Love, what my GF and I have is LOVE and what his wife did to myself and my GF friend was LUST...
Haven't talked to the H since that night but the GFF has called and thanked us for another great evening and is looking forward to our next adventure! SO AM I !

I came 12 times this weekend.... I think that's a record for me! I'm so sore I can barely walk! (smiles)

Stay tuned... it's getting HOT IN HERE!

Oh what a night...

Last Thursday evening was like any other... I had finished dinner and was watching a little TV waiting for my GF to get home from work. She normally stays over on Wed. and Thursday evenings. It was a cool night but not unlike many Fall evenings in our area... Motorcycle weather actually. I love riding on crisp evenings... the bugs are long gone and when you put on all the leather, you don't sweat! Anyway, my girlfriend called and said that she was going to dinner with a friend and that she would be home a little later than normal. Nothing unusual about that since she often works late and then stops off at a little Italian Restaurant for a bite and a drink with the girls. She informed me that a female friend of ours was meeting her for a drink and asked if I wanted to come down and join them. I wasn't busy so I jumped on the bike and rode over to meet them... When I got there, I could tell they were up to something... they were both smiling and laughing... We had some food and they had a couple of cocktails... the conversation soon turned to sex... my GF's friend was telling us how unhappy she was and how she didn't get enough sex and how she longed for more... she would occasionally brush up against my leg and I girlfriend was holding my hand and smiling... we were having a great time talking when they suggested that we go to my house for a hot tub... not one to pass up hot tubbing with two beautiful ladies, I agreed. They drove over to my house together and I rode my bike... I parked in the garage and went around to the side yard and opened the gate for them... My GF and her friend were feeling pretty good so it didn't surprise me when they got inside the house they turned to each other and started kissing..... Within seconds, GFF (GirlFriendsFriend) was pulling at the buttons on my GF's blouse and my GF was unbuttoning her friends shirt. Between kisses, the GFF was telling me how lucky I was to have such beautiful breasts to play with... I was just standing off to the side watching... I didn't want to say or do anything that might break up the moment! I watched as the GFF pulled off my GF's bra and started sucking on her breasts... pulling on them sucking, licking... it was a scene right out of a Incredible XXX video except it was happening in my room off the patio... Within minutes both of the girls were naked on my floor groping, kissing and sucking each other... when all of a sudden, they turned to me and started pulling at my pants.... they said I had too much clothing on, so they both started undressing me... pulling at me and grabbing me... I had two girls on there knees in front of me taking turns sucking me.... while they played with each other.... the GF stood up and laid down on the bed and pulled GFF on top of her... I slid up behind the GFF and played with her while my GF kissed and licked her pussy... she was licking her pussy and my fingers at the same time.... after a while of fingering, licking and sucking they both turned their attention to me again... after another 15 minutes of sucking by both of them, I couldn't hold out any longer and came... they both laid back on the bed and just laid there smiling... they had been planning this evening for the last 2 weeks and it was my little surprise by them... It seems that they are wanting to make this a regular event! Talk about breaking up the week!
Looking forward to the middle of the week just as much as the weekends now!

Celebrating the Giants World Series Win!

Last night, I was at the local sports bar watching the World Series. The crowd was larger than normal. We go to  Moylan's every Monday night to watch Monday Night Football but on this night, we were watching the Giants win their first World Series since moving to San Francisco. 52 years ago.
On that final pitch, the bar erupted into a joyous frenzy!! People were hugging, high fiving, screaming, crying... it was a sight to see. I love things like that. I almost teared up just thinking about what those young men must have been going through at that moment. I reminded me of my younger days in High School when we won the Soccer Title in our little area or when we went 15 and 0 in Baseball one year... There aren't many things that can make you feel those feelings. Of having worked so hard and then in the end..... Won!
It was a great event. I went to bed feeling really proud of our team....
Then I woke up. Turned on the news and saw all the "joyous" people that had been celebrating in SF... Most of them were just as excited about the win as I was... and then there were the "OTHER" people... the ones that decided that a Giants victory was an excuse to riot....
It makes me ill to think that of all the HAPPY people that were on the streets last night, the idiots that wanted to cause trouble were the ones that mad the News.... Why do we give these people face time on the TV?
What happened yesterday was a GREAT MOMENT in History... what happened after, was what's wrong with our world. Down and out people looking for excuses to cause trouble... I heard of a couple of people being pulled from their car and beaten... in what way is that a CELEBRATION???

Congratulations to the Bay Area for a wonderful Victory!

And to all those that feel they need to destroy others property, steal from or injure others.... FUCK YOU! I hope you wake up in jail and find out you're going to be spending a whole lot of time sitting behind bars!